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At the age of 32 I’ve only ever had two orgasms

AT the age of 32 I’ve only ever had two orgasms – once during foreplay and once with penetrative sex.

I still fancy my boyfriend, who is 34.


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He’s attentive and we have a great relationship. He knows I rarely climax and I know he feels guilty for not being able to make it happen for me.

I try to reassure him I don’t need to orgasm to enjoy being intimate but while I don’t blame him, I do feel I am missing out.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Take time to get to know your body on your own. Once you know how to bring yourself to orgasm, you will be able to show your boyfriend what you like.

Some who struggle to relax during sex grew up amid negative attitudes towards intimacy. Being told it is dirty can have a long-lasting effect. Seeing a sex therapist can help overcome these issues.

If you are thinking of seeing a private therapist, contact the College of Sexual And Relationship Therapists who can send you a list of qualified therapists (cosrt.org.uk, 020 8106 9635). 

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