A GIRL has warned others why it is "crucial important" to actually have sex on the first date, after waiting weeks to sleep with her man and being left floored by the experience.
Usually, you're advised against jumping into bed with someone so soon, but after a disastrous first time having sex with a guy she was seeing, the girl is urging others not to waste their time like she did.
TikTok user @eveculling revealed that she spent weeks getting to know a bloke and went on around 10-15 dates with him, before the pair decided to finally have sex.
Recalling what happened in the bedroom, she revealed she was stunned by her man's dirty talk – teasing that he had said "the least sexy thing he could possibly say", leaving her instantly turned off.
In a video she shared to TikTok that has since gone viral, after racking up 20million views, the girl says: "OK, I'm going to tell you guys why it is crucial important to have sex on the first date – hear me out.
"So, I recently was seeing this guy, we were taking things slow, we probably had like 10-15 dates before actually having sex.
"Before we had sex, I asked him, I was like, 'Hey, so what do you like during sex, do you have any like kinks?' He was like, 'No, I don't really have any kinks, nothing crazy.'"
Getting down to business, she says at first everything seemed normal while they were having sex, until he tried to excite her with dirty talk.
The girl continues: "So we go to have sex, at first it was fine. His d**k was fine, he was fine and then he starts to dirty talk.
"Now I know what you're thinking, dirty talk is sexy, dirty talk is hot – I agree completely, but this man did not do your typical… he could have said anything other than what he said.
"Let me just reenact this for you, OK, I'm him, 'Yeah, yeah, you want me to get you pregnant? Yeah, you want me to put a baby in you so everyone knows you're mine, yeah you want me to get you pregnant?'"
Riled up, the girl slammed the guy for not thinking before he opened his mouth in between the sheets.
She says: "Now I don't kink shame, but what the f**k, what the f**k, first time having sex, I asked you about your kinks, you didn't think you should tell me that? You don't just spring that on somebody.
"That is the least sexy thing you could possibly say. Also then, he was like, 'Talk back, talk back, say something,' What the f**k do you want me to say?
"'Yeah, you wanna pay for my abortion? You wanna be a single dad, yeah?' What the f**k?"
She revealed that she dumped him straight after, adding: "Months of getting to know this guy, getting deep with him, getting personal with him. Out the door.
"Have sex on the first date. You heard it here first. Don't say I didn't warn you. You're welcome."
Her post was inundated with nearly 50k comments, with people just as floored as she was at her man's dirty talk game.
"The difference between dirty talk and scary talk," joked one viewer.
Another teased: "That's not a kink that's a THREAT."
A third wrote: "I'm gonna be honest I would've asked him to stop. That would have dried me up like the Sahara desert. I'm not shaming, it'd just be a turn off for me."
One claimed: "I'm sorry to tell you but this is the most common kink," while another insisted it was a huge "red flag".
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