MANY women will have had the experience of being with a perfectly lovely romantic partner, but not knowing whether they really are 'The One'.
Fortunately, a dating expert has come up with an easy two-second test to help you tell whether you should marry them – or call the relationship a day.
Writing for News.com.au, Jana Hocking explained that she has devised a way to decide whether it's a "firm yes" or "hard no" when it comes to getting hitched with someone.
She said: "I usually do it after quite a few dates, say three months down the track. I take a good look at the bloke and then imagine myself at the start of the wedding aisle.
"I think to myself, 'If I arrived at the aisle and looked down to see them waiting for me at the other end, would I light up and be genuinely excited to see them? Would I think to myself ‘How the heck did I get so lucky to marry them?’
"Or would I just think, ‘OK cool, they seem like a good person, and I reckon I could have a decent life with them, so let’s do this.’”
The dating expert – who hosts the Kinda Sorta Dating podcast – explained that if you choose the first, you should stay with them.
However, if you're leaning more towards the latter, then it's best to say farewell.
Jana added: "The second option doesn’t offer an extraordinary love, it offers a safe love."
Last month, she revealed the red flags on dating apps to look out for when talking to men.
This includes if they delete their profile too soon – suggesting he's a little bit too much into you, and bordering on "stalker" behaviour.
Another bad sign is if they only post photos of their torso or from a distance.
Jana claims that guys who choose to share snaps that don't really reveal their identity, usually means that they're hiding something – like the fact they're married.
Those with the mysterious photos more often than not will never follow through on meeting up with you.
In other relationships news, we told you how a sexpert has claimed that men don't know how to please women sexually.
We also revealed how the 'locked down' sex position promises to help you hit the G-spot every time.
And a woman gave her man sex homework to boost their love life.
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